For any strong healthy relationship with partners & lovers, there are some qualities which make the relationship strong. A relationship forms as a bond of trust between each other and supports each other. There are some skills which help you to create a strong bonding with trust in relationships.
1. Relax Optimistically
Having a relax mind about the person with whom you are interested in relationship will help you to build a strong trust and relationship. When you feel comfortable with others, then they will feel comfortable with you. If you are interested in relationship don't be nervous because a nervous person can't achive his destiny and the partner will easily sense that and they will withdraw from relationships. In this world each and every person are interested in meeting other singles who are having fun and joy. That is the reason why we are trying to make friendship and relationship. When you are meeting a long losting friend your face will glow in joy and shine like a sun because the friend you're meeting is your best friend. When you have that face to the new friend they will feel happy and comfortable to have a friendship or relationship with you.
SMILE, nothing can beat a smile, it make your face to glow in joy. We are interested to meet a person who has a smile in his face. We won't turn to a person who don't know how to smile. So smile is a biggest way to get an instant glow in your face and you will get relaxed in mind too. When your smile reciprocates by partner then your heart will smile and that gives a bonding with the partner you are having relationship.
2. Listen Deeply
Relaxing your mind and smileing gives a start to build trust with each other but when you listen to the words and messages of your partner then it will create unexplainable joy to the heart of your friend or partner. Share their thoughts by listening to their words. Allow them to speak, In a successful relationship between any two persons there will be a lot of communication and sharing. Before building trust no person will tell their secrets but when you listen to them with heart then they will open their heart wide for accomodating you into that place. Listening creates an emotional feelings to person who is communicating. Friendship and relationships are tied with a bond of emotion not with a bond of appearence.Listen to your partner or friend with heart, listen deeply with emotional feeling. You will listen carefully when you place yourself inthe place of your partner.
3. Feel Empathetically
Feeling or seeing the other person's perspective without seeing your own belief is empathetic. In friendship or relationship you must see the perspective point of the person who is sharing the problem rather than your own point. It leads to two way communication between you both. When you feel their mistakes as yours then there will be the birth for solutions. When your partner realise that you know the mistakes of them and still you are respecting them and sharing excitement during their victory, encouragement and support during their difficulty will build trust on you because you are looking into the person's heart, not looking into mistakes.
4. Respond Carefully
Emotions create good and also bad. Emotionally motivated persons will do good and wrongs because they relates everything with emotions. When you are emotionally charged choose your words correctly. If you're not correct in your words then the trust you bilt till that moment will shatter into peices which is unrecoverable. So choose your words and emotions carefully.Showing your emotions without understandig the other person mood will also create problems, so understand the person's mood and needs. When they are sad make them to come up by your words, which will build trust, but when they are happy and you speak about their past mistakes without intension will destroy trust on you immediately.
5. Compliment Them
Compliment, a small word which does miracle. None in this world hates compliment because it gives joy to your heart that they appreciate us for our work. Compliment them whenever possible. When you overcompliment them they will think as you are teasing thme rather than appreciating their work, which will back fire you. So compliment them with some limit. Share their joy and sarrows with you also.
6. Synchronize Cooperativel
It is a true and trustable friendship and relationship will happen when both friends interest and activities lies in same frequency. if you act like your partner and if they act like your activities then it creats a strong bond of friendship or relationship because everyone want to mate with those have their interest. When two same interest colides there will be a discussion and fun. if two opposite interest colides there will be a major accident happens. When two interest or views meet each other then there will be another view which will be a mix of both and we share our picture on it. Synchronizing your partner interest is more important.not every human is having same interest, you need to find common interest of your partner and try to develop with that.
7. Act Authentically
Acting with your values is authentically. In simple words Be Yourself. When you are not like youself. being youself is not by appearence but by heart. Be yourself like when you are without no one. Don't create any false appearence with others which will not create a trustable bonding in your relationship and it never helps your relationship in any way. False face will not survive for a long time, for making it to survive you need to do a lot wrongs which tells you that you are not true in your friendship or relationship.When you act like yourself you are honest to yourself and also to others which will never make you as wrong rather it gives you respect amoung others.
8. Acknowledge Generously
When you need relationship look positive qualities of others rather than looking bad qualities. Acknowledgement from another person will register that person in brain or mind for a long time. That figure will not forget or dimnish in the mind. Acknowledge them for their good qualities, Don't overlook bad qualities of others. Show your gratitude and encouragement by words and actions to your partner. Encourage them when they are in difficulties, support them when they are in need, These are all some kind of acknowledgeing problems of them and providing hands for help.
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